I've had many, many, many (too many) conversations with girls throughout my life discussing relationships. Most have come down to one simple fact: the girl doesn’t have a sense of identity on her own. Therefore through all of her relationships she begins to “become” like the person she is dating. She has no idea who she truly is and will never know, until she comes to a point in her life where she is alright being single and truly knows who she is. This statement sums it all up.
"If you try to find intimacy with another person before achieving a sense of identity on your own, all of your relationships become an attempt to complete yourself."
Now, if only all of us women could truly comprehend this, our lives would be so much simpler.
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